Social Media Highlight: Skype

Skype Overview

Skype is a free messaging, and video and voice calling app that lets you send images, video, text, audio, or documents. Communication from Skype to Skype users is free; SMS and calls to phones are premium features that require one time payment or a subscription plan. Users can make groups, which allow messaging, and audio calls for up to 25 people. The maximum number of users for video calls depends on the platform.

Skype works on Windows, Mac desktops and Linux desktops, Windows Phone, Android and iOS, and is owned by Microsoft. Users must sign in to Skype with a Skype account, which is a Microsoft account. To create an account, users under the age of majority need parental consent. It’s not clear to me whether or not children under 13 are allowed to sign up for the service according to the terms of use. I find the statement about age on the same page to be oblique: “Skype’s websites and software are not intended for or designed to attract users under the age of 13.”

Why Kids Like Skype

Skype is similar to WhatsApp but works on many more platforms. It works just as well, if not better, on a laptop as on a tablet or smart phone. It’s easy to use Skype, and convenient to have it on in the background while working on the laptop. Some kids use if for discussing homework and getting help from peers. Kids also like to use Skype to hang out with each other,

Dangers of Skype

There are few dangers of children accidentally stumbling across inappropriate content in the app, although they may get message and contact requests from strangers, particularly if their profile is publicly searchable. Possible dangers in using WhatsApp include:

  • Conversations that start in games or in social media my move to Skype.
  • Predators who groom children in social media apps, usually move to messaging tools like Skype when they have built trust.
  • It’s easy for strangers to find and contact you if you keep discoverability on.
  • Interested users can use Skype to explore sexting.
  • It’s easy for users to share locations with other users.
  • Teens may use the messaging app to bully each other or to be mean, such as excluding a peer from a Skype group.
  • There are built-in, targeted advertisements in the free version of Skype.

Make Skype Safer

Skype has some limited built in features to make it safer for kids to use. There are also settings that parents and children can work to verify, to maximize security and privacy.

  • Create and manage the Skype account for your young child. Also, learn about Skype features and how to use Skype.
  • Change privacy settings so only contacts can see the picture, turn off automatically add friends, and turn off streaming media.
  • Turn off discoverability so that people don’t find you in search, nor in suggestions.
  • Modify profile on a desktop computer to determine who can see your profile.
  • Block or delete users, as needed, or report inappropriate messaging.
  • Only allow calls and messages from contacts.
  • Disallow Microsoft targeted ads.
  • Talk about sexting with children, and help them understand the dangers.
  • Monitor use and talk to your child openly about their use of Skype.
  • Speak to your child about how grooming, and other online dangers, and keep the lines of communication open. Ask them to let you know about interactions with friends who they haven’t met offline.
  • Turn off location access.
  • To learn more about this topic, see reviews from Parent ZoneCommon Sense Media, and NSPCC NetAware.

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Social Media Highlight: YouTube

YouTube guideYouTube Overview

YouTube is the premier video sharing website in the world, and it is owned by Google. The sites’ users are both individuals and companies. YouTubers (people who use YouTube) can watch videos, upload videos, share videos, share gifs of videos, create channels and playlists, subscribe to channels, and comment on videos. There are built-in tools for doing quick edits to videos, and for adding music. Users can also live stream video, and share the saved video on YouTube. YouTube Red is a paid version of YouTube, only available in a few countries.

YouTube works on the web, and has dedicated apps for Google Play, iOS, smart TVs, game consoles, and media streaming devices. Users must be at least 13 years old to join YouTube. The Google Play app is rated Parental Guidance and the iOS app is rated 17+.

Why Kids Like YouTube

There are lots of videos on YouTube, a mix of content relevant to and interesting to audiences of all ages. It’s easy to search and find interesting content to satisfy our curiosity. The video platform is appealing to children and other users.

Dangers of YouTube

Some content on YouTube is age-rated and can only be accessed with age verification, but since the environment is controlled by users, including moderation, it is not inherently safe for use by children. Dangers to consider include:

  • Public videos can be seen by anyone.
  • Comments can be mean and foul.
  • Private messages can be sent and received through named channels.
  • A friend could upload a video of your child.
  • There is a lot of inappropriate, and adult content on YouTube. Through innocuous search queries, students can encounter this content. Related videos, and what to watch next also provide opportunities for children to access inappropriate content.
  • YouTube Contacts can be set up and used for private video sharing and chatting in the YouTube app. Group chatting is also available on Android.

Make YouTube Safer

To make YouTube safer, there are a number of settings possible. A better option is to install YouTube Kids. Even that option is not 100% safe, with many reports from parents that YouTube’s automatic filters are not catching some inappropriate content.

  • Install YouTube Kids instead of YouTube.
  • Disable comments on public videos, and channels.
  • Enable restricted mode to screen out inappropriate content.
  • Use filters and moderation to manage comments.
  • Turn off channel recommendation.
  • Turn on privacy settings for subscriptions, likes and saved playlists.
  • Request removal of videos of your child. Work with your child, so that they may contact their friend with the request.
  • Have your child show you any videos that they make before uploading them to YouTube.
  • Use unlisted for uploaded videos.
  • If your child wants a channel for uploads, and they have their own account, become a manager.
  • Subscribe to your child’s channel if they have their own account.
  • Report harassment and cyberbullying.
  • Use YouTube with your child, and enjoy watching some of their favorite videos together (especially for younger children).
  • Actively monitor how your child uses YouTube, and discuss it with them (for older children).
  • To learn more about this topic, see reviews and instructions from Parent InfoProtect Your EyesCommon Sense Media, and NSPCC NetAware, and YouTube’s Help.

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Social Media Highlight – Whatsapp

WhatsApp Logo

WhatsApp LogoWhatsApp Overview

WhatsApp was launched in 2010. It is an ad-free, encrypted, free messaging, and video and voice calling app that lets you send images, video, text, audio, or documents (up to 100 MB). In addition to person to person communication, WhatsApp allows chat groups of up to 256 users. A recent addition to WhatsApp is the ability to create WhatsApp Status, which lets you share photos and videos that disappear after 24 hours. Users must set up WhatsApp using a valid phone number for account confirmation.

WhatsApp works on  AndroidiPhoneMac or Windows PC, Blackberry, Nokia, or Windows Phone. It can also be accessed on the web, but has to be connected to your smart phone account through the WhatsApp settings. Users must be at least 13 years old to create an account. WhatsApp is owned by Facebook, since 2014.

Why Kids Like WhatsApp

WhatsApp is more attractive to kids than other instant messaging apps because it only needs a phone number to set up, and is works on a wide variety of platforms. Kids may also like the fact that it’s popular with younger people. WhatsApp allows groups, and participants can share all sorts of files with each other very easily.

Dangers of WhatsApp

WhatsApp is not a social networking app, but rather a messaging app. With the recent addition of Status, WhatsApp is broadening its reach, and may be considered social media. There are few dangers of children accidentally stumbling across inappropriate content in the app. Possible dangers in using WhatsApp include:

  • There are public groups in WhatsApp on a variety of topics, including adult topics and self-harm. These groups cannot be found in the app, and it is unlikely that children will develop these behaviors from using WhatsApp.
  • It’s easy for users to share locations with other users.
  • Anyone in the same group as a users can see the user’s profile.
  • Teens can choose to limit access to WhatApp Status to particular contacts, and could hide them from parents that way.
  • Predators who groom children in social media apps, usually move to messaging tools like WhatsApp when they have built trust.
  • Conversations can be easily deleted.
  • Teens may use the messaging app to bully each other or to be mean, such as excluding a peer from a WhatsApp group.
  • Interested users can use WhatsApp for sexting.

Making WhatsApp Safer

There are few WhatsApp settings that can be modified to make WhatsApp safer. The main settings to explore and change concern privacy.

  • Create an account, and let your child use your account.
  • Learn how to use WhatsApp, including Status, to help your child navigate it.
  • Change the profile privacy settings to set who can see the profile photo, about, status, and last access.
  • Change media auto-download settings so audio and video don’t auto-download.
  • Show your teen how to block or delete users, or report inappropriate messaging.
  • Monitor use and talk to your child openly about their use of WhatsApp.
  • Speak to your child about how grooming, and other online dangers, and keep the lines of communication open. Ask them to let you know about interactions with friends who they haven’t met offline.
  • Agree with your child about how they can use Status.
  • Talk about sexting with children, and help them understand the dangers.
  • Turn off location settings.
  • To learn more about this topic, see reviews from Protect Young EyesParent Info, Common Sense Media, and NSPCC NetAware.

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Social Media Highlight – Instagram

Instagram Overview

Instagram is an app first released in 2012. According to its website, Instagram is a “free photo and video sharing app”. Although the company doesn’t use those words, it is a social network. The main features of Instagram are PostsStories and live video. Posts are videos or photos that show up in a user’s feed. Users can upload up to 10 photos or videos in a single post. Stories are shared with followers and the videos and images in them expire in 24 hours, but any text remains behind. Live video is shared with followers, who get a notification when someone they follow is live. Users must log in to use the app.

The terms of use specify that a user must be at least 13 years old to use the app. The app works on iOS, Android and Windows Phone. It is rated Parental Guidance on the Google Play store, and 12+ in the iTunes app store. The app is owned by Facebook.

Why Kids Like Instagram

Instagram is easy to use for posting photos, and adding filters to them. It’s a very popular app with many users who are under 12. You child likely has friends who use Instagram. As children have smart phones on which they can take photos, they are likely to want to share those photos with others, especially friends and family. Instagram can feel like an extension of their community.

Dangers of Instagram

Although Instagram is about sharing photos, it has many more features than this, which makes it more fun for users, as well as more dangerous for children. There is a risk of a child accessing porn or other inappropriate posts on Instagram. Possible dangers include:

  • If a user likes a public post, other users will see their username and can click on it for access to their public profile.
  • If a user shares a private post to another social network, that post is no longer private, and can be accessed with a link.
  • If you access Instagram with a web viewer, your images may be indexed by other websites, and shared in public.
  • Other people could post inappropriate comments on a post
  • Instagram Direct allows conversations between two or more users of the site.
  • Users can send disappearing video and photos in Instagram Direct.
  • Users can contact people who they don’t follow, or receive messages from people who don’t follow them, through Instagram Direct.
  • Children may hide a story that they post from any user, including parent followers.
  • There are ads built into Instagram.
  • It’s easy to share location in the app.
  • Children may not make good choices on live video, even innocently.
  • Live videos and related comments disappear from Instagram at the end of the stream but can be saved to the camera roll.
  • This is porn and other content inappropriate for children on the site.
  • Hashtags make it easy to search the site for specific content, some of which are inappropriate for children.
  • A child can gain access to unfiltered internet access through the app.
  • Watch out for cyberbullying, and exclusion, which may be difficult for parents to spot. Sometimes teens can have conversations that are difficult for adults to decode.
  • Users can have up to 5 different accounts under 1 profile, so you child could have a finsta account.
  • It’s easy for users to clear web history.

Making Instagram Safer

I don’t think that you should let young children use this app. However, I know that there are many children on Instagram, despite the company’s requirement that users be at least 13. If your child is using Instagram, help them save settings that will make Instagram safer.

  • Create an account to explore the app. Here’s a guide to help you.
  • Follow your child. Also agree on who can follow them, for example grandparents, friends in the class, etc.
  • Make sure that your child turns location off.
  • Set posts to private so that only people who follow them can see their posts, and they have to approve followers.
  • Opt out of Similar Account Suggestions so that they won’t be suggested to other users, and people who follow them won’t get suggestions of other users to follow.
  • Revoke access to third party websites that may repost their images or video.
  • Change their username if someone that they’ve blocked is still mentioning them.
  • Advise your child on deleting inappropriate comments that they or someone else makes.
  • Help your child turn off comments or filter comments for posts.
  • Block people and report abuse as needed.
  • Speak to your child about any inappropriate content that he/she posts, and how to delete it.
  • Learn about who your child is using Instagram Direct with, and how.
  • Speak with your child about how they should respond to messages received in Instagram Direct from people who don’t follow them.
  • For younger children, consider making an agreement that they can’t post stories.
  • For younger children, consider making an agreement that they can’t post live video. If your child is allowed to live video, decide where, when, and under what conditions. As a follower, you’ll be notified of live video by your child.
  • Carefully manage who you follow. This will not completely protect your child from inappropriate content posted by others or from content found in Search and Explore. Teach children to select to see less of a type of post.
  • To learn more about this topic, see reviews from Protect Young Eyes, Be Web Smart, Common Sense MediaNSPCC NetAware, and Instagram Tips for Parents.

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Social Media Highlight: Musical.ly

Musical.ly with logoOverview of Musical.ly

Musical.ly is an app first released in 2014. It lets children create and share music videos 15 s – 5 minutes long. In addition to home grown stars, more mainstream stars like Katy Perry use the app, and invite Musers to create music videos of their songs, as a way to promote new singles.

 

The terms of use specifies that a user must be at least 13 years old to use the social network. The app works on iOS, Android, and Amazon Fire. The app is rated 12+ in the iTunes app store, and Parental Guidance in the Google Play store. Users must log in to use the app. People who use the app are called Musers.

Musical.ly is one of a number of apps by the same publisher. Other apps to watch out for are live.ly for live video streaming, pingpong video walkie talkie, and squad group video chat.

Why Kids Like Musically

Musical.ly is attractive to children, including those below 13. When I first heard about it, it sounded like a fun app. Kids talk about how they can practice different dance moves, explore their creativity, and dance with friends. It’s like video karaoke, with friends. This all sounded good to me, and still does, but the dangers have dampened my enthusiasm.

Dangers of Musical.ly

While focusing on the fun aspects of Musical.ly, children fail to consider the dangers. There is a risk of a child accessing porn or other inappropriate videos on Musical.ly. There are a number of behaviors that may be dangerous for kids and teens using Musical.ly.

  • Create and share videos that show themselves or others in a negative light.
  • Follow strangers or allow strangers to follow them.
  • Host a party, and invite “friends” to it.
  • If they create a duet with someone else, they may be subject to their friend’s settings for the video.
  • There is explicit content on the site, both songs and adult videos. You child could stumble upon something, or actively go looking for it.
  • Hashtags make it easy to search the site for specific content, some of which are inappropriate for children.

Making Musical.ly Safer

I don’t think you should let young children use this app. If you think that your child is ready to confront the dangers in this app, help them make Musical.ly safer. Here are some suggestions of settings you can teach your child to make, or set up with your child.

  • Create an account so that you can explore the app, and follow your child. Here’s a guide to help you explore Musical.ly.
  • Make a musical.ly with your child to understand the attraction for them.
  • Implement private accounts so that only people who they allow to follow them can see their videos.
  • Understand the privacy settings for accounts and videos. The table shows who can see a person’s videos for each combination of settings:
    Private Account Public Account
    Private video (stored on iPad only) No one No one
     Public video (stored online) Only followers  Anyone
  • If you notice an inappropriate music video uploaded by your child, discuss the problem, and have them delete the video.
  • Use face filters to protect privacy.
  • Carefully manage who they follow. This will not completely protect your child from inappropriate content posted by others as musical.ly may post featured videos.
  • Enable settings that only allow friends to send messages.
  • Make sure that public information is at a minimun as it can be seen by all users. This includes profile picture, username, and short bio.
  • If you or your child sees inappropriate language, sex or violence, spam, or others, be sure to report abuse.
  • To learn more about this topic, see reviews from Protect Young Eyes, Be Web Smart, Common Sense Media, and the Musical.ly help page for parents.